Fig and Me
My Life and Times with a Most Unusual Feline
November 12, 2010
A Note to my faithful readers: This is the first half of a story that was submitted for a Paris Literary Contest where I became a participant. My friend Sarah, who lives in Paris, is my cohort in crime, and I’d been trying to write a story about Fig but couldn’t really find the right outlet…it was either too long or too short… well, you get the drift, and this became a very fun outlet. Very sadly, as you know, Fig died two weeks after I submitted the story to the Shakespeare Bookstore in Paris and it has taken me until now to be able to share this story with you. So here’s the first half of what was to be a much longer story and while I’m not sure that I’ll be able to finish right now I hope you’ll like reading it as much as I enjoyed writing it with Fig sitting next to me with an ever watchful eye.
Of course, the end of the story is that Gracie and George are now living here, two rescue cats, with very different personalities. I must confess that I really do think that Fig pays them visits to cheer them on and train them as my favorite pens disappear, toys end up in their water bowls and their favorite seats are on my computer keyboard… and, well, you can guess the rest. Here is a toast to my Figgie, she was an amazing girl and I will always miss her.
Synopsis of Fig and Me
Fig and Me is a story about my life with a very unusual yet extraordinary cat. You might ask, what’s so unusual about a cat? I mean, doesn’t everyone love their pets? The answer, of course, is yes, most do. But Fig is spectacular. She’s wicked smart, answers to her name, comes when I call her, meets me at the back door when I come home and sleeps right next to me every night. To me, she is the sweetest, most loving pet companion I could ever hope for. Now, here comes the catch, she hates everyone in the world except me. She has a few notable exceptions, but I’ll let you read about them.
The story Fig and Me attempts to take the reader on the journey Fig and I have mapped over the past 16 years. I will tell you all about each stage of Fig’s life with marked events as she grows from kitten-hood, to discovering the outdoors while indoors, fess up to the daily routines of our lives or the games people play, my futile attempts to find babysitters for Fig, and finally what our lives are like today as we’ve both aged gracefully and settled down to become journeyman quilters.
Whatever the outcome of this event, I hope that you enjoy reading about the most wonderful, complex and legendary cat in the neighborhood. She is my joy.
Fig and Me
I have a favorite television show that asks famous actors great questions to get a better feel for who they are as a person vs. the characters they play. Questions start out easy such as…“What’s your favorite color?”…normal answers, vibrant purple, cobalt blue, hot pink, in-your-face yellow. Next comes, “What’s your favorite swear word?” smiles all around the room as everyone slyly thinks of their very favorite word to use to emphasize a point. Short words. Usually start with either an “f” or an “s”. Here comes the best question of all…“What’s your favorite sound?” That’s the question I’ve always wanted to answer because I have the perfect response. My answer, of course, is my cat’s purr. To me, there’s no sound in the world as exhilarating. It’s both comforting and amazing at the same time. It’s like a little motor running that assures me that all is right with the World.
Now, while these are stock questions posed to famous actors I think they’re some of the best questions to ask just about anyone…I think it’s interesting to understand what they think about their favorite colors, words and sounds. While we’re on the specific subject of sounds, I should tell you that some would say that it’s impossible to hear my cat purr, rather that she roars like a lion. You see, very few humans have ever gotten close enough to my sweet girl to hear her purr, but have rather been subjected to a considerable, booming scream, and she has sent many adult cat lovers running in fear for their lives. But you need to understand, she’s quite an unusual lady.
I must confess, I am totally devoted to my cat. Yes, I’m over 35. Yes, I’m single. No, I’m not one of those crazy old ladies with 500 cats living in her house, wearing cat sweatshirts, growing catnip in the garden. Not that there’s anything wrong with cat sweatshirts (I know a lot of people who wear them proudly) or growing catnip…I actually tried it once and every cat in the neighborhood came running through the plants, plus it’s not one of the prettiest herbs in the potager. The biggest reason I don’t have multiple cats is Fig. That’s my cat’s name. Essentially, she doesn’t work and play well with others. She hates everyone and everything in the world except me … with a few notable exceptions. She likes Dave the bug guy, Josh the contractor and Joel the plumber. These are the only three people (other than me) who can get within 3 feet of her and, miracle of miracles, play with her. My friend Denise has taken care of her when I have gone out of town for all 16 years of Fig’s life and she still hisses at her when Denise comes to FEED her. Most people find this phenomenon incomprehensible and feel that since they are true cat people, they will win over my wild beast. Bring on the challenge. No one has succeeded yet.
You would think, from this ghastly behavior, that Fig is an enormous cat. Not. She’s never weighed more than 8.3# at any point in her life. She’s tiny. She’s beautiful. She has the most gorgeous black and white markings that make her look just like the cat, Figaro, in Disney’s Pinocchio movie. She has clear, green eyes that look like pools of sea green water and a pretty pink nose that looks like it was painted on. Her belly is snow white and so are her legs and paws. Her back and tail are jet black right up to the tip of her tail that looks like it’s been dipped in white paint. Now how could such a beautiful lady behave so badly? Welcome to my world.
I adopted my fuzzy little child when she was 6 weeks old from the Warren County Animal Shelter. (A note of explanation: One of the Vets in the practice my sister went to brought adorable strays from the Warren County shelter into this suburban practice so that everyone in and out of their doors would fall in love with these cute little beings and they’d find their forever homes…well, it works.) It seems that she and her litter mate, a yellow and white male, were abandoned when they were two days old and a nurse at the Animal Shelter bottle fed them until they were old enough to be put up for adoption. I had always promised my nieces and nephew that I would get a cat when I bought a house (they wanted a cat for themselves but because of their babysitter’s cat phobia, a kitten was out of the question).
One Saturday afternoon in early May my phone rang and it was my then-10-year-old niece, Lesley, on the phone.
“Aunt Barbie?”
“Hi, Sweetheart.”
“Do you remember when you said that when you bought a house you’d get a kitten?”
“Yes”
“Well, you bought that house didn’t you?”
Now, I know I’m in trouble.
“Yes…”
“Good! Because I found the kitten for you! We were at the Vet’s this afternoon and there are two really cute kittens who need homes and you really need to get them! They’re really, really, really cute!”
“Lesley, all kittens are cute.”
“Not like these! They’re REALLY cute.”
“Lesley, please put your mother on the phone.”
My sister picked up the phone…and she was no help at all.
That was Saturday afternoon.
On Monday morning I was on the phone to the Veterinarian’s office asking about the kittens. “Well, we only have the black and white female left; someone adopted the yellow and white male on Saturday. The black and white female is really sweet.”
“You know, I really want a kitten but the timing is so terrible. I’m going to be travelling a lot and I just don’t want to leave a kitten alone. You’ll have more kittens over the next few months won’t you?” I asked the Vet Tech.
She assured me that yes, they would and that they would certainly find a good home for this adorable little kitten.
At noon I was at the pet store buying cat litter. I mean, every home needs to have cat litter on hand, even if it’s just for emergencies, don’t you agree? So, there I was, in the middle of the pet store, buying litter and a litter box, for what emergency I don’t know, but I just thought it would be good to have on hand, just in case…you understand, right?
By 3pm, I decided that I needed to go to the Vets’ office just to visit this kitten. No harm in visiting. Someone else is going to adopt this cat, not me. I can’t take a cat home now. I’m travelling too much for work. (Ever heard that one before?) What am I going to do with a cat? I took one look at this little tiny bundle of fluff sitting in the palm of my hand and I was hooked. That’s how Fig came to live at my house. I mean, that’s how my house became her house and she allows me to live there with her. That was 16 years ago and I can’t imagine living without her.
Plus! Did I mention that I had recently acquired litter and a litter box? Terribly convenient.
So where does her, let’s call it, particularly outstanding personality come from? Well, over time, when people would come over, first she would hiss. Then the hiss gradually became a growl. I’d never really heard cats growl before. Then she started staking out territories, like my bedroom. I had to rescue adults from the second floor of my house because they were afraid that my 8#, de-clawed petit chat had transformed into the Terminator and they thought they’d be cornered in my bedroom forever. It was then that I realized she’d turned into a Rottweiler in cat’s clothing.
I finally learned the root cause of her behavior when I had to take Fig to a Cardiologist. Yes, my cat has a cardiologist. Just as a point of reference, I have three cardiologists, my cat has only one, and I can see any one of mine faster than I can get in to see hers. Well, we arrived at the Cat Cardiac Clinic on the day of her first appointment and as they were carrying her out of the exam room for some testing, I told the Tech not to worry about her growling as her bark was far worse than her bite. Or so I thought. When the Tech and Cardiologist returned with test results and the exam was over I learned a thing or two.
Cathy, the Tech, came into the room first and said to me, “Barbie, just a bit of advice, don’t tell anyone else that her bark is worse than her bite. If she has the opportunity to take a major chunk out of someone’s arm, she will. We’ve started handling her with chain mail gloves.”
I WAS HORRIFIED! This is my sweet-natured, purring, ball of fur she’s talking about. Not the demon cat from hell! What happened to my playful, sleep next to me, come when I call her, fall asleep in my lap, devoted best friend? Then Fig’s Cardiologist, Dr. Cathy (yes, another Cathy) came into the room.
She asked me, “By any chance, is Fig a bottle-fed cat?”
I was blown-away!
“How did you know?”
Dr. Cathy said, “I knew it. Bottle–fed kittens are just a little nuts. They bond with their one human, and you’re hers, and they’re very aggressive with others. This is classic behavior for a bottle-fed kitten and she’ll never change. Basically, they never had feline mothers who taught them to be cats.”
I must say that life with Fig is never dull. She keeps me laughing and comforted on a daily basis. Who knew when I adopted this 1# bundle of fur all that I was in for? Well we all have our little quirks, don’t we? Fig’s, let’s call them idiosyncrasies, don’t end with her outspoken tendencies. She puts me through my paces for her own entertainment every day. I can only tell you how she has trained me and the secrets and joys of living with Fig are many.
Strap in for the ride…you’ll never believe it!